Seeing my children

Community Services came into my life 19 years ago. There was a report made that I was not looking after my child properly.
Community Services gave me the choice of putting my child in foster care or something else (I can’t remember).
I went to the shops to get formula and to think about the choices I had to make. By the time I got home, Community Services had taken my child.
I have 6 beautiful kids who Community Services have taken at different stages of my life. This did not all happen at one time.

I was very upset and confused. I started to think I wasn’t a good parent.
I didn’t know where to get help.
My relationship ended when the children were taken.
I was all by myself.

When it is 'contact' time, I am so happy and excited. I can't wait to see them.
I see my children for 2 hours every second month. This used to be monthly.
We eat together, play together and spend quality time.
I ask them how school is going and what’s been happening. I try and show the contact worker that I can do it. I am a good parent.
Before and after contact, I ask myself how I can show the contact worker I am a good parent. I also think about if I have a done a good job during my time with my kids.

I wish it was easier to find services to help.
My goal is to get my licence, a more stable job so I can get my kids back and I’ll show court and everybody else that I am a great parent.
I can do it because I love my kids.

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